You have grown up in a Seventh Day Adventist Home or have recently become a Seventh Day Adventist. You may be going to an Adventist school. You love the Lord and there is nothing that will change that. Congratulations you are already behind the eight ball so far as your Christian life is concerned.
There are two events that I encountered that persuaded me that men of all walks of life are in trouble in today’s world. Of course there are internet resources that cater to many of their problems. I have yet to see any Internet resources devoted to the sub community of Adventist men who have realised that there is a problem in the Marriage Market Place MMP for men.
The first event was a conversation I was having with a couple we knew from way back. They spoke of how they attended a “Home Coming” event at one of our premier Adventist institutions around twenty years after they graduated. They spoke of how when they left college person A was married to B, C was married to D, X was married to Y etc. Twenty years later A was married to D, X was married to B and C was married to Y. Their observation was that it was like a giant wife swapping club.
Given that this generation went through college between the mid seventies and mid eighties this would mean that many young men of today would be children of these philanderers. But then as young men what have you observed as this kind of thing went on. Who gained the largest financial benefit from breaking up these relationship? Who was most likely to initiate the break up?
Many of you will be children of broken homes. If you are from a broken home, most likely you will be living or will have lived with your mother. What kinds of things did she have to say about your father? Have you gone to see your father to see if he is as bad as she made him out to be?
He may have never come around as you were growing up. Most likely your mother told you that he doesn’t care about the family and doesn’t love you kids. Is that really true? Did you check it for yourself? Have you ever asked your father what mum would have done should he have gone to the bother of coming to visit you?
Many men these days are banished by the courts from ever visiting their children with jail time for those that try. Have you confirmed that your father was not one of those?
What evidence do you have apart from your mother’s say so that your father is a dead beat dad?
As a young man you are about to hit the playing field of the marriage market place only to find that you cannot understand what is going on with girls these days. They will go running after Harley McBadboy who mistreats her then they will come running back to you to complain about the way he treats her. She complains that she wants a nice guy but you observe that she is not interested in you, the nice guy, nor for that matter any other nice chaps that you are personally aware of.
This blog will attempt to answer these kinds of problems and present viable solutions that fit within the moral values of the Adventist Man. It is also aimed at older Adventist Men who are prepared to swallow the red pill. Regardless of who you are you must be warned that swallowing the Red Pill is an extremely unpleasant experience. Alternatively you may have already gone through a very unpleasant experience that makes the Red Pill so much more palatable. Regardless – welcome aboard. You are not alone. You have brothers out there who are willing and able to help you if that is what you truly want.