OK kiddos its about time you take stock of yourself and think seriously about what it means to be a man. You are either still in school or have recently left and your balls are blue. What do you do? Can you see past the end of your dick? You certainly need to.
Before a man invites a woman into his life he needs to have a very clear idea of where he is headed in life. He needs to have decided what it is he likes doing and get to and start doing it. Don’t let your family get in the way. You’re a big boy now.
Why is this important? For the same reason that a ship without a rudder can be easily pushed off course resulting in disaster for the passengers. If you don’t take control of your life then someone else will. This person/people can be either parents, siblings, girlfriend, wife, cops, prison officers, other prisoners. You’re a man and you plan to let others push you around?
Once you have your direction set then you can make sure that anyone who makes their way into your life will do so on your terms. No matter who this person is. Most importantly once you decide to have a girlfriend/wife they will join your life on the understand that they will not interfere with your career/direction you’ve chosen for your life. In fact if anything she will submit to your authority on this matter.
Of course I will argue later that it would be better if you don’t marry at all but rather be one of an increasing number of Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW). In fact you could start by being an MGTOW and take time to get your life in order and then decide to have a girlfriend and get married if you deem it worth the risk.
For men the best part is that they can take their sweet time deciding if a relationship is for them or not. If you can make it to thirty without dipping your wick the testosterone haze begins to fade and your mind will clear making it easier to make better decisions. Remember that men age like a fine wine (which us Adventists don’t drink) while women age like milk.
There are a number of websites dedicated to men and how they can get their lives in order in a way that is of benefit to themselves rather than every other person out there.