I was just reading today an article about the state of play within the churches regarding the dating scene. It seems that many women in the church have expectations that are way too high for the quality of product they have to offer.
Here is one Christian’s observation on the matter.
“…women are more and more starting to view church much like the workplace – a sexual demilitarized zone in which it’s just considered not appropriate for men to be sexually forward or expressing a desire for someone or something he wanted.
I have seen women recoil in shock and horror for the “crime” of talking to them or saying hi to them after church. I have seen women stand aghast and agape at me for daring to ask them after church if they might like to get a drink sometime. It is as if I had just committed a major offense. They simply could not believe a single man was expressing sexual interest in them, single women, at a church. But, what was really going on was that a man they weren’t attracted to actually had the sack to talk to them and pursue what he wanted, albeit in a hamfisted manner. A “male” had the sack to act like a “man”, and they couldn’t abide it.”
Never fear young Adventist man. There is hope. I’m about to offer a suggestion but before I do I should warn you of the danger. Before you embark on this activity you should ensure that you a solidly confident in your biblical knowledge and relationship with God.
First of all you must learn Game. There are many websites these days that teach the art of game so that you become attractive to women. You will also find out the true nature of women and believe me when I say that what you find out about them will be very difficult to accept. The fact that we have been brainwashed over the years regarding the “sweetness and purity” of these girls does not help at all. Some other locations of the manosphere refer to this as pedestalisation of women.
Once you have learned game give up on using the church as a dating market. Yes I actually said that. Instead go out into the world and look for nice females out there who have lifestyles and values fairly close to what you are looking for in a girl. There are a couple of reasons for this. The first is that research has indicated that when a man becomes a Christian there is a ninety percent chance that his wife and children will join him. The second is that as a man it will give you practice in winning souls to Christ. Third is that she is less likely to be corrupted with the feminism that passes for spirituality within the church so she is in theory likely to be more open to the idea of biblical submission compared to her rebellious Adventist sisters. Fourth it will give you opportunity to practice leadership and lead her into the church.
Let those Adventist sisters singing the “There are no good men in church” song enjoy the cads who will come in to practice the “Sunday Morning Nightclub” experience.