In a recent article http://familyshare.com/marriage/5-ways-you-are-unknowingly-destroying-your-husband-and-killing-your-marriage five ways are listed in how women destroy their marriages in the Christian world.
Of course this leave the writer with a problem. They know that the women reading the article will cry “But what about the men!?” implying that men must surely have some faults and therefore the women will be absolved of some the responsibility for the things that they are doing to destroy their marriages. This is so common that most articles written to women or even public presentations to women when men are not present always have to put up a disclaimer similar to disclaimer at the end of the above page.
UPDATE: Men, this advice applies to you as well.
Now you will notice that when men are publicly ripped for their bad behaviour eg. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZkaeAkJO0w8 there is never any cry from them “But what about the women!?”
Women know that they are not equal to men and it is this awareness at a subconscious level that seems to be behind the reason why, when being held to account for bad behaviour, they always cry “But what about the men!?”